Str8 Men & Gay Porn

I like to watch gay porn for 2 reasons

I like to watch gay porn for two reasons. The first is that I had a three or four year period where I explored gay sex when I was in my 30’s. Fresh out of a divorce I was living in a gay neighborhood and got curious. I tried it with several different men and definitely enjoyed it. I met a a fabulous black man that I actually had a two year relationship with. He really took me places sexually I had never been to before. He was the only man that made me consider my true sexual preference. After two years he moved back to Chicago. I never met another man that had the same effect on me. The second reason is that I still find a nice sized cock to be a beautiful thing.I eventually drifted back to women. I still found them more attractive than most men. I finally met and married my second wife. She knows nothing of my past and would never understand or tolerate it. I love sex with women, but the memories of that two year period, still tempt me every now and then. Michael

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I am a straight (maybe Bi) male and I have watched gay porn on more than one occasion. I have masturbated to it before too. Let me start by saying I enjoy having sex with women, a lot. I’ve never had sex with a guy, but would be open to the idea. I’ve used toys before too and know that it feels good. Beyond curiosity and that it is arousing, I don’t know of any other reason to watch gay porn… You can’t help what turns you on sexually, so you might as well except it and explore yourself.

I just tend to find a lot of gay porn is relevant to my interests in a way that some straight porn isn’t.

I don’t like watching sloppy, gaggy blow jobs and on the whole gay porn has much cleaner bjs at least from what I’ve seen. It’s about 70/30 straight to gay watching. I don’t like twinks or super swole dudes. I generally watch college vids, hazing type deals, straight for pay, nothing with kissing/caressing. Just the sex please. I’ve never had any inclination for a male outside of gay porn, I like many other guys here were totally grossed out by it and it became this taboo in my mind and then I decided to just watch one and saw that it really wasn’t so bad. I’m sort of a voyeur in that regard and just like watching gay, straight, trans, whatever.

On rare occasion, I watch gay porn because my dick tells me that’s what I want to be watching. I’m not gay, I just sometimes get this urge that says “watch a man rail another dude in the ass.”

From : Do any straight guys watch gay porn as a fetish rather than an aspect of your sexual orientation.

8 thoughts on “Str8 Men & Gay Porn

  1. Watchinhg gay porn is something I have grown into over time. Initially it was just pics. Then I looked at gifs of men pulling their cocks out. Now I began looking at videos, especially the ones where a straight man, like myself, is seduced. I even likeit when the video is of older men like myself.

  2. New years eve, 1979, Denver. I met a man in a bar called “The Broadway”. He was from Chicago. Looking back at it, I must of had a bullseye on my chest. He played me. Got me to believe what he said. “First mistake”. I was lonely, single, without a lot of man on man experience. I was an easy target. I flew to Chicago twice in the next month and a half to be with him. I had never had anal sex with anyone..ever! I was twenty five years old. He was good looking, masculine. What I thought I wanted and needed. He was not so attentive in the bed room however. After being served a lot of red wine, my choice….I own that..we went to the bedroom. After very little foreplay, he entered me. Got right to it. No tenderness, just raw fucking. I remember saying, on one of these visits that I was going to go brush my teeth. His reply was ” Oh, I suppose that means you want to kiss”. “Second mistake”. We drove to Chicago that afternoon, saw a play downtown, then went to a fancy hotel for dinner. He was aware of how quiet I was this whole time. During dinner, I felt locked down, removed from the situation. For many years I searched for an answer. Well, I found it. I felt violated. Used. And the biggest discovery…I felt that I had been raped. I am NOT saying that I actually was and I would never profess to know ANYTHING about what a person must go through in a situation like that. I was a twenty five year old man, with desires that most likely could or would never be met. Not at that period in my life, at least. I vividly remember saying goodbye to him at the end of my second visit. He said ” I’ll mail you a check for half of your airfare, like last time”. The check never came. I had maybe one or two phone conversations with him after that. “Third mistake”. I realize now, how empty he was, as a person. Only really concerned was about his status at work, how much money he made, his new house and hot tub, etc. I just couldn’t get my head around all of that, at least not at that time. He told me about someone he met at a beach, while on vacation. He said this other guy was “Almost perfect”. “Fourth mistake”. Gee, imagine that. He briefly was with me, and in that very short time, missed everything. I know decades later….the relationship, was not to be. I suppose this experience added to my basic lack of trust of my fellow man. I continue to struggle with relationships. Of any kind. Once again, thank you Seb, for creating a place where we can share our thoughts….our deepest feelings, without fear of being misunderstood.

    1. Hi Lester, Do not give up on relationships. A genuine meaningful one is out there but they are not an easy thing to find. Yes there are unfortunately users in all aspects of our lives: professional, personal, family or in the more intimate relationships we enter into. Fidelity and honesty, or in other words trust, are sorely lacking these days. Do not reproach yourself for being young and inexperienced, a not to dissimilar episode happened to me. It took all I had, emotionally, to take the leap of faith and trust again. Yes we can all get caught up in the flurry of attention and – dare I say – lust, but I am cautious who I give my trust too. I do not do casual relationships but sometimes a NSA quickie is fun when you know what you are getting into. Contradictory I know but some fun and seeking/finding and developing a meaningful relationship are two very different scenarios. All my serious and lasting relationships have been built on the following premise: how do they treat others, what are they like in casual situations, how to they speak of others, are they kind generous and do they respect and above all else listen to other people. My longest relationship – forty years – was built initially on a ‘slow burn’ to friendship to enduring relationship. I hope life is well for you sorry if I have gone on a bit. Thanks for sharing your experience it could not have been nice revisiting that time in your life? Take care and all the best for the future. DM UK.

    2. Wow Lester did you go through it, but I totally understand the relationship bit. My idea of relationships was destroyed in my childhood by an abuser and have never had good relationships since with men. The only difference was with the one and only woman in my life, my late wife whom I loved dearly and miss terribly. sex with men and porn have always been the means to an end getting my rocks off. But over the years I have had one or two really hot times and would never change any of it. My late wife knew of my desires and providing I never spoke of it or let it intrude in our life she accepted it as something i had to do. I doubt I will ever have a full on relationship again at my age although not old no woman could take my wife’s place and most men don’t want someone my age, if they do they probably already have him as they seem to grow older together. So I just settle now for the odd bit of porn and a good JO when the mood take me. I wish you all the best.

  3. I like to JO and like to look at cocks, have been jacking at the gym and lots of guys like to watch and touch I have been sucked by 3 guys at the gym

  4. All men, even straight men, are turned on by cock, in my experience. This is why so many will masturbate together and do nothing else. And why most draw the line at penetration in some way.

  5. I like to watch gat porn for two reasons. The first is that I had a three or four year period where I explored gay sex when I was in my 30’s. Fresh out of a divorce I was living in a gay neighborhood and got curious. I tried it with several different men and definitely enjoyed it. I met a a fabulous black man that I actually had a two year relationship with. He really took me places sexually I had never been to before. He was the only man that made me consider my true sexual preference. After two years he moved back to Chicago. I never met another man that had the same effect on me.
    The second reason is that I still find a nice sized cock to be a beautiful thing.
    I eventually drifted back to women. I still found them more attractive than most men.
    I finally met and married my second wife. She knows nothing of my past and would never understand or tolerate it.
    I love sex with women, but the memories of that two year period, still tempt me every now and then.

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