TanricK Magick

Seb, Your website is amazing and very interesting. I have learnt a lot in just reading through the letters and correspondence. Sex is a very powerful language and if you are into the tantric arts even more so. I am a practitioner of Tai Chi ( Taoist ) and have had the most amazing sex after practising the art – I always think of my Tai […]

2 cumm or not 2 cumm, is that the ?

hello seb cox, i’m a 23 year old guy who’s having problem with my sexual life. i have a boyfriend and i enjoy having sex with him and he loves what i do to him, but i can’t reach my point of no return (ejaculate) not even masturbating, been penetrated or penetrate my boyfriend and i know that he feels bad because i don’t reach my […]

another man’s cock

It’s certainly not what you would discuss with your mates down the pub on a Saturday night. But I am very aware that in reality it’s a lot more common than most str8 men would care to admit. For most str8 men it’s something they think of while masturbating, or having sex. It remains a very private fantasy. Others will experiment, they will occasionally feel a real […]

Sex is about power

What did Oscar Wilde mean when he said,”Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”? I heard about this quote on a podcast, and I instantly thought of Foucault’s History of Sexuality. Foucault thinks people are neither more sexually free nore less sexually free in modern society. In aristocracy, the form of control was either you’re ignored by the aristocracts or […]

i think you are a star

Explore sex, try everything but if you don’t like it don’t do it. If it hurts or is uncomfortable it’s not being done correctly. When your having sex it’s time to be selfish, and get the respect you deserve. If your not getting what you want, you won’t be satisfied. Try being a little more dominant. If people don’t add up you have to subtract them, […]

wide open

The first time i allowed my arse ( and all that) to soak up sun was during my first visit to a nudest lake during a business trip to Austin Tx. Being married & bi, have to take opportunity as it comes! I spread my ass cheeks and felt amazing heat on hole and got biggest hardon ever! Folks were staring & was asked by many if […]