A great orgasm reminds us of our original state, before all that to be ran in, where heaven, where heaven was to bask in Gods love with no needs at all, no need for control. The uncontrollable, juddering, screaming orgasm re-connects us. That is the spiritual value of it! Gay mens true role in the … Read moreSex Spirit & S.punk
This is all very intellectual and brain driven and very little attention given to the libido with its own selection of responses to various stimuli. I have found in my lifetime that the more I profess confusion and fight being categorised the less pleasure I get from my sex. If both your brain and your penis come to … Read morea lustful agreement
I have hair on my chest
I drink whiskey
I work out
I like Karate
I drink beer
I like heavy metal
I stay out late
I read (ie: I’m smarter than you.)
Sometimes I lose ….but I learn
I don’t care
That’s my job
I had steak for lunch
Do you want to fuck?
I take care of business
C’mon let’s fuck
Don’t cut me off in traffic
How about we fuck?
Are we going to fuck?
I drive a sports car
I save money
I spend money
I make money
I show off
I really really need to fuck
I said I drive sports car
I drink…. did I mention that.
We aren’t going to fuck are we?
I work out
I shoot guns
I ride a motorcycle
Don’t make me beg for it Bitch.
I think you are really special
I can lift heavy boxes
I can hang pictures
I can drive you around
I can buy you dinner
Like if you see someone who is great with math, he absolutely loves it, he thinks about it all day long constantly trying to figure things out mathematically… you don’t call him an addict, you suggest he might enjoy a career in doing something with Math. Logical, right? Sex IS the same. Todd Perkins explains.
It’s just not something that your typical High School guidance counselor would recommend to you. 🙂 There are a group of people on this planet who have the role of assisting people in coming to acceptance and balance with their sexuality. If you haven’t noticed, this world is a pretty sexually unbalanced place at the moment. There is so much unhealthy guilt, shame and silence around sexuality that people are constantly being haunted by their own sexual desires. That natural aspect of themselves that is seeking _expression, is being stifled and repressed out of guilt and shame. Sexual Healers are people who have an intense focus in the area of sexuality and also have worked (and continue to work) to clear themselves of their own sexual guilt.
They have reached a space of sexual freedom in their own lives and feel compelled to share that with others. They want nothing more than for others to find that beauty that comes from touching the space of sexual freedom. Sexual Healers are a unique breed! They some how see beyond all the societal bullshit, and see sexuality for what it is, a healthy _expression of pleasure and connection. They some how intuitively know how to assist other people in accepting their own sexuality. And they often have an element of what society calls “exhibitionism.”
They like to share their body and sexuality with other people. Sexual Healers today are on the vanguard of a movement in Sexual Healing on this planet. They are the people who feel called to change the way society feels and thinks about sexuality. For some people they do this one person at a time, with intimate contact or therapy. For other people they feel compelled to affect many people at one time. Through educational materials or sexual videos. They all have the same objective, sexual freedom. If you have taken on the mental label of being “addicted to sex”… drop it. Your seeming “addiction” is really a higher part of you that is actively seeking after personal and spiritual growth. You are here to use sexuality is a tool to heal yourself, and then assist other people. That is the path of a sexual healer. So how does that look in your life? Each person has a different draw to express themselves. Only you know what is “your thing.”
How do you find it? Just ask yourself, “What is the coolest thing you could possibly think of doing?” That’s it! The next step, is to get up the courage to actually become a professional healer. How do you do it. You just start. Go after what your sexual desires are calling you to do. Your sexual desires are in fact there to guide you! Welcome to a whole new wonderful life! -Todd Perkins
It’s all about trust, truth and respect for yourself. Don’t be shy. You will be best at sex that involves getting what you really want. Never forget that. If you want to have really good sex, it has to involve you getting what YOU really WANT/NEED. Practising asking for what you really want/need as this … Read moreHow to have the Best Sex of your life
For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my orgasms. In search of that ultimate orgasm, I explored Tantric and Taoist massage, long sessions of breathing exercises with the Enemagra and the Pantra, meditation under the influence of Cannabis. And yes, slowly but surely, my sessions have been longer, more fulfilling, allowing my soul to ride on faster and more powerful orgasmic waves: I have learned to redirect my anal orgasms to my dickhead, my toes, my burning tits, my boiling balls, all the way to my head. It has become a true “out-of-body” experience: I see kaleidoscopic visions of the world, of the source of all life, including mine, pulsating deep inside me, in the center of my body, between my legs. It is total bliss, and I want these moments never to end. But it is so intense, that I cannot keep the intensity on my own for much more than a few minutes. Still, these multiple orgasms, one right after the other, have been the essence of my meditations for quite a few years now. My sessions will go for usually 2 to 3 hours, and often I end up by allowing myself to ejaculate, but not always. Sometimes, it is good to stop without shooting: it leaves a nice feeling of intense heat in my balls for many hours! But shooting a big load after such a long session of multiple orgasms is just an awesome experience. At some point, you feel you need to stop, or you will lose control and end up shooting!
It is actually not about loosing control, it is about letting the divine in you take control! I just keep my breathing exercises, moving my pelvis against the cushions to push the Pantra against my sacred G-spot, sending waves of pleasure through my dick, balls and spine, while a squeeze my very sensitive tits. Waves after waves, I feel I will shoot, but not yet, the waves become stronger and stronger, the pleasure opens my legs wide apart, I see kaleidoscopic views of golden waters spurting out of a fountain of life, like semen out of a dick. But then, something in me knows that there is no return, but I try to hold it more, I lay still, I sniff poppers, I hyperventilate 20 times then stop breathing till I cannot hold it any longer. And again I move my pelvis and the orgasmic waves start again shooting out of my inner being. Now, I feel my semen boiling inside me, being pushed along my urethra towards my dickhead, contraction after contraction, very strong, very slow contractions that each time make me scream and nearly pass out. I can nearly visualize my sperm progressing along the shaft of my dick.
My ass contracts as well around the Pantra, and the orgasm sends me totally out of my body. I have become a vibrating orgasmic soul. I no longer can tell the difference between my balls, my dick, my ass or my tits. The whole of my body has become a huge vibrating sexual organ, sending incredible energy to the world and my soul. Finally, right before passing out, usually after I stopped breathing for well over a minute if not two, I see bright light pouring out of my body, and feel the bright pure sperm squirting out of my dick, fountain of life that will stay pulsating for long after the last drop of semen has been ejaculated. And recently, I found a way to make it even better. I put the Pantra in my ass, but connect an electro-stimulation device between my stainless steel ball-stretcher and a silver “sperm-stopper” (it has a little ball that goes inside my dickhead). And I stimulate non-stop. That allows me to orgasm constantly, instead of having to rest for a minute or two before doing it again. It is no longer multiple orgasms, but one never ending orgasm. And ultimately, my soul will take over, and I will explodeinside me, become that huge sexual pulsation of energy, and shoot white life all over me, without touching my dick. I hope this can help some of you reach the Universe! Love and hugs!
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A study from the Archives of Sexual Behaviour spoke with 821 guys about what they wank off to. No surprising that 98.3% of gay men admitted to watching gay porn in the last month, while 96% of bisexual men did too. But most importantly 21% of straight men also reported stroking their almighty to gay porn. The 21% are of course the straight men who were honest. I bet in reality the percentage is more like nine out of ten.
Jon says: On XVideos and PornHub, the number of straight guys who like gay porn (guilty as charged) is pretty high. Mostly it’s where it goes: Nude wrestling or Bob Mizer-style “lame excuse to be naked” videos are a yes. Masturbation, docking, frot, also a yes. Fewer straight guys like oral videos. Fewer still like anal videos. And almost none like kink. And the stereotypes aren’t true at all: The more artsy gay porn is more popular with straight dudes than PWP.
Hi Seb, Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the sexuality that exists between men, gay or str8.
You seem to deal with male sexual hunger in a confident and mature fashion. It has always been my argument that everyone, men and women, should have sex with members of both sexes–preference aside–if for nothing else to experience a different type of body, a different type of pleasure. I’m jealous. I’d like to be as confident and able as yourself. I’m 32 and going through a sexual awakening. Sex up until now has been mostly in response to someone else´s desires…reactionary. I want to sort this, be more confident and defining in my wants and desires. I want to learn to be fucked, to receive. The only time I have enjoyed anal sex is when I have been high on coke or X, and boy did I LOVE it, but only when high, and that has been only 4 times in 12 years of gay sex. Would or could you teach me? I have a fantasy of being pounded, big cock, or cocks, mouth, ass, whereever. Not so original I know, but its what I’d like.
I visit your site often, as I said before, and often times I become so horney I have to go for a wank in the office toilet. I’m in Spain now, but am thinking about a long weekend in London sometime in October. If so I’ll make an appointment so you can show me all I was never shown. I have complete confidence in you, your site has sold me, excited me, it’s had me in the fucking toilet here at work, wanking!!! Dave
When the soul is plunged in the fire of divine love, like iron, it first loses its blackness, and then growing to white heat it becomes like unto the fire itself. And lastly, it grows liquid, and, losing its nature, is transmuted into an utterly different quality of being. And as the difference between iron … Read moreGROWING TO WHITE HEAT
Hi Seb, I always enjoy reading your thoughts, ideas and wisdom. I think you should write a book called something like the “New Sexuality” which every man should read! When I first came across your website I had pomised myself a session with you but alas for me you are now retired I believe. Well, … Read moreNew Sexuality