Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal […]

Complete & Repeated

Dear Mr Cox, I’m writing with a question – but first let me just say that you have what I think is a very enlightened and enlightening website. Personally, I find the references […]

The HaPenis Dance

If anyone asks you how the perfect satisfaction of all our sexual wanting will look, lift your face and say, Like this? I have always been intrigued as to how one could infuse […]

Sexual Desires

Hello from reading your site it seems clear to me that sex has more to do with energy and desire than sexual orientation. From school we are taught not to much about sex […]

Become A Cock Whisperer

Have you whispered to him what you truly love about his cock? Men often have hang ups around the appearance, smell and taste of their own penis. Hearing you talk about his cock […]

Sex Is About Power

What did Oscar Wilde mean when he said,”Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”? I heard about this quote on a podcast, and I instantly thought of […]

Daoist Wanking

Daoism asks for wanking without preconceived ideas. It is an ancient Chinese philosophy that is about wanking that lets you better understand yourself, sexually. Daoist wanking is about simplifying wanking in a honest […]

Sex Yourself?

A study in Psychology Today, found a great misconception about men’s masturbating habits is that if they’re in a sexually healthy relationship, they’ll masturbate less. However this isn’t the case. “Masturbation isn’t a […]

Strange Business

You sit here for days saying, This is a strange business. You’re the strange business. You have the energy of the sun in you, but you keep knotting it up at the base […]

Listen To Yourself

Listen to yourself to the subtle flows of emotion, desire coursing through your body. You need not conform to any boxes, any borders. Desires overflow these simple lines designed to control, to contain. […]

Finding Yourself

When you find yourself with the Beloved, embracing for one breath, In that moment you will find your true destiny. Alas, don’t spoil this precious moment. Moments like this are very, very rare. […]

21% Str8 Men Wank 2 Gay Porn

A study from the Archives of Sexual Behaviour spoke with 821 guys about what they wank off to. No surprising that 98.3% of gay men admitted to watching gay porn in the last […]

Do What Thou Wilt

Ruff asks, In your belief, can a single gay man preform sex magick properly or does there always need to be a woman as a representation of the goddess?” In a lot of […]

SEXUALLY REPRESSED

With sex openly discussed on TV, in magazines and on the internet have we finally thrown off the crushing of our Victorian ancestors? Or is the reality that we are just fooling ourselves, […]

Whoever You Are

Or if you will, thrusting me beneath your clothing,Where I may feel the throbs of your heart or rest upon your hip,Carry me when you go forth over land or sea;For thus merely […]

Sex is not a goddamn performance

Sex is not a goddamn performance. Sex should feel as natural as drinking water. It should not require confidence. Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe. Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening pupils, ripening […]

Truth, Energy & Beauty.

The most irresistible charm of youth is its bubbling enthusiasm. Youth sees no darkness ahead – no defile that has no outlet – it forgets that there is such a thing as failure […]

worshipping the self

For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my […]