Whatever I Am, I Just Am

I grew up in a time where I was a closet homosexual. That was what I called myself. I had a girlfriend, and I did the whole double life thing. I was a psychotherapist […]

bRomance

Young men are becoming more emotional and intimate, allowing them to achieve a new level of closeness . This means they are more likely to share intimate secrets with their bRomance than their […]

50% Heterosexual

The world of stark one camp or the other is not helpful and certainly not my personal experience. But I guess for a lot the gay/str8 concept is helpful. I reckon I’m a […]

(SAASH)

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT HE’S A SAILOR NOT A SEX TOY! IT’S FLEET WEEK IN PORTLAND, which means thousands of robust sailors will be taking a well-earned shore leave in the friendly City of […]

Morning Woods

Men are supposed to have erection, that is how they are designed. Seriously, if you’re in “good health,” your body is hard-wired.” In fact, nocturnal erections—also known as “sleep-related erections” (SREs) or “nocturnal […]

HaPenis UnZipped

I’m 100% gay, the only thing I ever did with a female was when I was 16. The terms, straight, gay and bisexual are societal norms, or what one should identify as. My […]

The Platonic Blow

The Platonic Blow, (sometimes known as “A Day for a Lay” or “The Gobble Poem“) is an erotic poem by W. H. Auden. Thought to have been written in 1948, the poem gleefully describes […]

Down In The Woods

The benefits of going down in the woods are partly due to various plant-derived essential oils called phytoncides – airborne chemicals with antibacterial and antifungal qualities, which plants and trees emit to protect […]

 HomoRomantic ?

I distinguish between sexual orientation, romantic orientation, and platonic orientation because many straight guys, for example, have gay sex on the side.  They often say, “It’s only sex.”  To me, they are HeteroRomantic […]

Wanking With Men

i have never been gay. but lately i find myself thinking of masturbating with men. i am in my 50’s. i have never done it before. i am married. i feel so guilty. […]

Sexual Desires

Hello from reading your site it seems clear to me that sex has more to do with energy and desire than sexual orientation. From school we are taught not to much about sex […]

Symposium (Plato)

The Symposium is a philosophical text by Plato dated c. 385–370 BC. It depicts a group of men, partying, drinking and talking about their love of cock.The men include the philosopher Socrates, the […]

Homoerotic Dream

I have become interested after having the most intense homoerotic dream that left me so hard I could not believe I was capable of it. I now cannot get the dream out of […]

Capable of HaPenis?

How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door […]

Fucked bi/ 50

IT wasn’t until I was fifty, that I discovered I really enjoy being fucked by men. I have no desire to kiss or hug, just the penetration, and mutual sucking. Unlike some, I have […]