How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door […]
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Mystical Communion
Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal […]
The Blessed Virgin
A contributor to a discussion group for masturbating catholic priests wrote the following that seems to show beautifully how masturbation can be turned into a truly spiritual Catholic experience. As a catholic priest for years, […]
The Art of Cruising
Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. He says that the art of gay cruising dates back decades, to the […]
a sexual awakening
Hi Seb, Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy […]
A Pornosexual?
A pornosexual describes somebody whose ‘sexual orientation is linked solely to porn’. It means that, given the choice, they would prefer to watch porn than to have sex with another individual. With the […]
Anatomy of the Prostate
I learned as a young man in school the anatomy of the Prostate Gland and that, among other functions, it produces a thin, milky, alkaline fluid that is secreted into the urethra at […]
Sex Is About Power
What did Oscar Wilde mean when he said,”Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”? I heard about this quote on a podcast, and I instantly thought of […]
Deer Exercise
The Male Deer Exercise is an ancient Taoist exercise designed to improve male sexual health. It is believed that it can transform a man’s sexual health, and strengthen the body’s sex organs and […]
Prescribed Depression?
I took Citolapram (Celexa). The doctor said it might mean “possibly some experience of ED”. My wife said that would be a good thing to “give her a rest”. Well, It was a […]
The Place Where We Are Right
From the place where we are right Flowers will never grow In the spring. The place where we are right Is hard and trampled Like a yard. But doubts and loves Dig up […]
BiCurious Divorced
My fantasy is to fully loose my MMF virginity. I am a 41 year old divorced bi curious man interested in taking/being a male lover. I’ve never been in a gay bar but […]
Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys
37% of all gay male porn is viewed by women. Most women who watch gay male porn ‘imagine themselves’ as men during their sexual fantasies while masturbating, according to new research. A University […]
My Gift From God
I have to do this everyday: I am senior bear and if you had told me when I was a kid, that I would one day March in a Gay Pride parade, I […]
Studying Mantak Chia’s Book?
Hi Mr Cox, Regarding multiple orgasms, I haven’t yet experienced them but I’d like to think that this is going to change very soon. As you may remember, I’m interested in this subject […]
A Blessed Gift
I have to do this everyday: I am senior bear and if you had told me when I was a kid, that I would one day March in a Gay Pride parade, I […]
Sex Body Spirit
I have been surfing your site for a while and it speaks loads to me. Your whole approach to sex, body, spirit and most of all, as a man who seems complete, is […]