Worshipping The Self

For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my orgasms. In search of that ultimate orgasm, I explored Tantric and Taoist massage, long sessions of breathing […]

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50% Heterosexual

The world of stark one camp or the other is not helpful and certainly not my personal experience. But I guess for a lot the gay/str8 concept is helpful. I reckon I’m a Kinsey 4. Well more than incidentally. Just leave me free, to be more flexible. Bob According to […]

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Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal depth and understanding of male sexuality; a renewed inner fire, invigorating and expanding personal desires and passions; […]

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A Sexual Awakening

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the […]

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A Handy Shandy

Took me a while to get to doing this. I like the honesty. We are there for the same thing. Usually no words, just nods and in for a handy shandy and one bends down for a suck. In bushes at parks or in the gents. Surprising what a cross […]

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“Freaky”

I am elated that I found this site! I am so incredibly in love with my boyfriend and we have incredible sex. It seems as though we naturally take sex to the next level with each other and sometimes we get a little “freaky” but we both love the pleasure […]

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Symposium (Plato)

The Symposium is a philosophical text by Plato dated c. 385–370 BC. It depicts a group of men, partying, drinking and talking about their love of cock.The men include the philosopher Socrates, the general and political figure Alcibiades, and the comic playwright Aristophanes. The speeches are to be given in […]

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Sex Is About Power

What did Oscar Wilde mean when he said,”Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”? I heard about this quote on a podcast, and I instantly thought of Foucault’s History of Sexuality. Foucault thinks people are neither more sexually free nore less sexually free in […]

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Capable of HaPenis?

How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door to your HaPenis(heart’s desire. While you may be attracted to sex with someone of the opposite gender, […]

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The Blessed Virgin

A contributor to a discussion group for masturbating catholic priests wrote the following that seems to show beautifully how masturbation can be turned into a truly spiritual Catholic experience. As a catholic priest for years, integrating my spirituality and my sexuality has definitely been a process. Just turning down the volume on […]

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The Art of Cruising

I love cruising. I have 3 places that I go regularly that are pretty safe and I can play discreetly. I can get my hard cock out, exposing myself. I especially like theatres because I can get naked, stroking my cock getting lots of attention. I have one park I […]

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A Pornosexual?

A pornosexual describes somebody whose ‘sexual orientation is linked solely to porn’. It means that, given the choice, they would prefer to watch porn than to have sex with another individual. With the rise of popular porn websites like PornHub, people have been allowed to tailor what they watch to […]

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