“Society is so hypocritical and limiting. The fact that one calls oneself “straight” or whatever doesn’t reveal anything about one’s true fantasies or desires. It’s not that people can truly know every aspect of your being by simply referring to limited concepts like a presumed sexual identity. “I am” this or that is therefore so simplistic, as if things are fixed and never change. It’s as if that one aspect defines your total state of existence.” Jake

It might be what pop culture implies about being gay. (bisexual don’t exist in pop culture.) While the stereotypes about gay men are largely done with, there’s still a belief in some essential difference. This is actually kinda funny to me. From puberty to college, I had a number of male sexual partners. Guys my own age. Athletes mostly. But no oral or anal, just a lot of circle jerks, hand jobs, and frot. Most of them are straight. A few are openly bi. Hell, if we didn’t get laid after a date (a.k.a. 99% of teenage dates), we’d relieve each other’s blue balls. Jon

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